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Hey, we're  not trying to harsh your V-day weekend.  You're better off without that loser. (And if you're spending the day with your current Big Love-- bonus!)

We just want to hear about the moment when you knew you'd be better off without whoever-it-was.  Listen in, call in on Friday-- 888-635-1112

And we weren't kidding about many breakups being good news; we borrowed the idea for this thread from Chicago writer Robert K. Elder, who created itwasoverwhen.com

... and that's how he sees things.  He started the site last year, after being laid off from his longtime gig as a reporter for the Chicago Tribune.

Here's an interview he did with me yesterday:

   (He also created itwaslovewhen.com, btw.)

Here's a first-person I-knew-it-was-over story, phoned in on Thursday, from a guy who knew it was over when she didn't come home. For two days.

  Our heartbreak-of-the-week story comes from a vocalo collaborator.  Maybe it's the heartbreak of the month. 

"Big Girl Heartbreak" involves a guy who REALLY said the wrong thing and never realized how wrong it was.  That's the first part.  The second part involves alcohol and Facebook.  

 BUT WAIT-- There's more!  Wut's Good Radio addressed an eternal question on Thursday:  Why do women sleep with sleazebags?  They pressed a female guest for an answer... and got one.

 Last but not least:  The patron Superhero of Valentine's Day, Breakup Girl ("saving love lives the world over"), celebrates by hosting a breakup haiku contest.   Hear her talk about why -- and read a couple of favorites.  Beyonce plays a big role in some of the best ones.